Posted by Ginger Moreno on November 03, 1998 at 10:58:25:
In Reply to: Re: "Carting Ginger Off..." posted by Mili on November 03, 1998 at 02:32:55:
Mili, look at your posting on this forum - you want to make sure you always appear to be the person who has all the answers. Unfortunately, Mili, you do not. You have your opinion, I have mine, Frankie has his, Carl has his, etc., however, you need to put some of the emotion aside and look at your postings logically!
You ask Carl if he is judge and jury...however, you need to ask yourself that question. As far as his mother or my mother is concerned - well, I cannot speak for Carl, however, I will say I am not proud of my actions - but I will also stand by them. At the time, this was the only solution. Since you were not in my shoes - you really cannot judge. I have never judged you, I never knew about the horrible times you spent as a child in an orphanage. Have I, my brother or Carl Jr., ever put anything on this forum denouncing your parents? I think not!
What happened between you and Emily was very hard. To say I condone it would be wrong. However, Mili, you did not come three thousand miles just to see us - you were in Las Vegas for most of the time and you also came to see Haddijah (spelling). We had dinner at Cafe Roma and we were there for approximately 4 hours - and then you and Carlos had to leave because of your flight. I am NOT saying I did not appreciate seeing you - what I am saying is that you need to put things in perspective. Oh, and yes, I did give Frankie his cup and champagne.
On keeping my brother on my good side - well, you see Mili, I love Frankie very much. Sometimes I may not agree with his actions - I am sure he doesn't agree with some of mine - but we do TALK about everything! I am very lucky because we do have that kind of communication. I have also been blessed with a great family (and that includes you!) The fact that Carl Jr., and I have become very close again makes me very happy. You are over three thousand miles away and have no idea of what is transpiring here or where Carl Jr., is! The fact that you drove all that way upset me greatly - and for Emily to say that we had no room for you - well, she was wrong - there was plenty of room. But I really do not want to get into some kind of "I am better than you" contest with you. If this is your opinion of us, then, let it be! Remember always, no one here on earth is perfect!
Ginger
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: Is this one other reason why you "HATE" your mother and father so much Carl Jr.? Are you soooooo perfect and can call yourself "GOD" to be judge, jury, and executer? Have you EVER forgiven anyone for anything?
: When was the last time you "SAW" your mother in person? How many times did your poor mother try to visit you and you turn her away after travelling thousands of miles by bus. Tell us Carl JR. Tell us something nice about Rafaela. How do you know she was a mail-order-bride. How horrible to even print this for the world to see. Maybe your Father was the mail-order husband. I would also appreciate it if you did NOT use profanity on board.
: Oh and Ginger stay out of this one PUULEEESE. You have a habit of interfering where it does not concern you. You who wanted NO part of your mother before she died. You told me NOT to let her know I even saw you or your phone number and that YOU did NOT want to talk to her. That you have YOUR OWN problems.
: And then you told me NOT to tell FRANK about what was done to ME by HIS girlfriend at the funeral parlor since YOU had to stay on his GOOD side. How she told me to leave that there was NO room for me. I really wanted to be your friend and that of Frank but I can see there is no room for friendship in your heart. I will NEVER forget how badly I was treated after I made the sacrifice of driving 7 hours round trip knowing I have a bad heart and to be pushed on the side. You are so ungrateful. You couldn't wait to see me leave. Well I am glad I am a better person than you could ever be. This is why you are such a miserable person. My dear cousin Ginger "YOU ARE YOUR MOTHER'S DAUGHTER. I felt so sorry for Titi Iris. It was evident she needed help both mentally and physically and your back was turned on her. Yet!!!! You behave no better.
: Did you ever give Frank the cup and bottle of Champagne I bought for him and left in your car the day I met you in California. I travelled 3 thousand miles just to see you and Frank for 2 hours.
: Frank may be a so called "gifted writer" as YOU say. Well we have a lot of those in the Arreche family. Too many to name.