Posted by Ginger Moreno on November 01, 1998 at 10:48:13:
In Reply to: TRY TO LOVE ONE ANOTHER --------PLEASE posted by Mili Arreche on November 01, 1998 at 03:36:18:
Mili, it would be wonderful if we could forget the past and go on - however, if we do not learn from the past - we are bound to repeat it! What my brother and I have written is subjective, but also the truth. We have not made any of this up, and if my brother was upset about the condition of our grandparent's grave - then he has the right to be upset. I know I was when he told me over the phone.
I realize you have had a very hard life - but you have to understand that other people also have had some very serious problems AND this really does not come into the picture. My brother is a gifted writer and he IS trying to share his feelings - is that not what this web page is all about? What is written in this forum is not just semantics, and it is not trash. I examine the emotions and understand.
Loving one another is very altruistic, however, we are all individuals and we all love differently.
Ginger Moreno: There were many stories about our family and it would be so nice if you tell let us know the wonderful things about the Arreche's.
: I loved Donna with all my heart and often I had invited her to come stay with me in Florida. I even told her she could live with me. But she wanted to stay in Puerto Rico. I am sure next to Uncle Nono. Donne had a good heart and I know how generous and caring she was. Since I never hung out with anyone in the family, I do not know what was done to her. I do know we cannot change the past and I do know that Jesus is our savior and this is what is important.
: My husband and I are going to Puerto Rico at the end of December, so if anyone of you would be kind enough to give me all the details about our "Grandparents" grave I would appreciate it.
: He without sin cast the first stone, said the Lord. Remember this?
: The first 45 years of my life were "hell", I do not dwell on it. I just made it better for myself and my children the best I could and knew how. I have had 2 heart attacks and a triple-by-pass. I am still here and I just thank God everyday of my life he has been so good to me.
: We the cousins "CANNOT" anything in the past. We should learn by mistakes that were made and not make them ourselves. We should love one another since we ARE all "Primo Hermanos." I will always love my family no matter what has been done, or said. With this I leave you with the thought. I love you all. Mili la hija de Eduardo Arreche.